Well...
I might be the only one left on Earth who feels this way, but I'm not giving up all hope
yet. Hope can be self-defeating, but I have a kind of cruise-control auto-hope that kinda ticks away inside, and doesn't consume me with belief. So I'm sticking with that for now.
Why? Well, because none of this stuff is, to me, really cast in stone. Maybe Amber needs a break, and will take a break, and will do other cool stuff for a while. But if she got the call again, would she say no? Maybe Chance, or her next project (whatever that may be) won't do anywhere near as much for her career as another stint on Buffy would. She is a big name to us, but her profile is still smaller than even Eliza Dushku's at the moment. Yet Faith is set to return again after a fairly long break.
Yes, Faith was only in Jail, whilst Tara was killed.
But Buffy's a fantasy show of a most flexible kind! Jeez, Willow, make up the spell to beat all spells, and do the impossible!

There must be a hundred people on this board alone who could write a reasonable enough script to do the trick, if they really had a go.
And even if Tara never became a regular character again, maybe there is some way for the story of Willow and Tara to be given proper closure, that at least would be better than the way things are now. So if I was only given
those two choices, then I'd gladly swallow my overall anger, and choose "proper closure". At the end of the day, not many TV show characters
ever get proper closure.
Another thing I wanted to say was - let's keep reminding ME, each in our own little way, how thoroughly stupid it was to kill Tara. Whether it's a website, a banner exchange, occasional hate mail, whatever. Don't do it if it makes you
permanently upset. As I read through the posts here, I really
feel for a lot of Kittens
But if it's no stress for you, and it's economical for you, then I say keep it up. Because heaven knows, we fans can drive people nuts!

And there are countless cases in history where fans have pestered the cause of their fandom to the point where they do make a difference.
Lastly...
Imagine, for a moment, a hypothetical world where
every Buffy fan was completely enraged and disgusted by Tara's death. I don't for a second believe that Joss would simply say "Well! What's done is done! We can't reverse it now!". He would effectively be choosing between writing a much loved character back into his show against the odds, or his entire show and his career as a "successful" TV show creator.
So at the extreme end of the spectrum, you see, Tara would be rushed back in, with a contract.
At the other end of the spectrum, her chapter would be closed and no-one complain or care.
Where we are at the moment is bobbing around somewhere in the vast sea between those two extremes. We DO care, and people are talking. And ME are well aware of the public outcry. And shit, I'll be the first to say that's an achievement for a bunch of humble fans.
So for me, the scenario where Joss chooses between Tara or his entire show, is something I will at least continue to aspire to

Call me stupid. But what's life without a big, fat goal or two?
hugs,
Sarah-B.
PS. I don't post here often, but I just wanted to say you guys really rock around here
Perkybitch"If you are going through Hell, keep going."