How important is it to you to either label or not label characters in terms of their sexuality? I'm thinking of the whole brouhaha that went down last season with Willow and Tara. Is it imporant to go, "Willow's bisexual,' or "Willow's gay, Willow's experimenting?" Or is it just part of a process for a character like her?
I wish we never had to do that. If we could have just let it stand as a relationship... but I don't know how realistic that is, necessarily. I was hoping it would all just happen. They had great chemistry, and it seemed like a natural step for someone in college to expand their sexuality. It all made sense. And there was a great metaphorical way to play it, so it felt right for the show. And they're so romantic together. Then as soon as anybody heard it, it was like, people went nuts. the papers were calling and all this stuff. And I was like, "wait a minute, aren't people over this yet?" I was so shocked that it was a big deal. The otehr thing was that we finally did an episode where [Willow] said, "I love Tara." And everyone went through the roof. "oh my god, you made her gay, goddamn you to herll, how could you do this, I can't believe it." And I'm like , "Where were you for the last ten episodes? Didn't you see that spell? [Wicked Witch voice] That was a dirty spell!!"
Another issue that came up at the same time is that people were ranking on Amber Benson's body type.
On the internet. There were some reallly nasty comments. These are the same people who said Marc Blucas was too skinny, so...
He looks good to me!
Too skinny? Wait 'til you stand next to the man! Yeah, there was some stuff, and of course I went ballistic. She's incdredibly slim, tiny, like many actresses. It's that weird TV standard. They're like, "Look at Tara Flynn Boyle, she's a wraith." Then someone shows up who looks even remotely like a woman, she actually has hips and things like that, and people say things like that. It pisses me off to no end. Poor Amber. And she's so beautiful.
She certainly is. Do you have a personal relationship with the actresses on your show in terms of nurturing body image?
It's a big issue. I know what things make them uncomfortable. they all look incredibly great, and they spend all their time saying how bad they look. Which, for those of us that do, is annoying. It's a big issue for them. My whole thing is, "just be healthy. You're all gorgeous, tehre's no bad, just be healthy." I would like the to wear skimpy outfits and whatnot. I would like sexuality to be a part of the show. And I would like the attractive people to be present. I'm not going to lie - that's part of it. But at the same time, I try not to be exploitative. They're not running around in bikinis. There's a comfort zone, and they wear things they're comfortable with. Every now and then we'll say, "Well, can we try this?" There's a give and take in those relationships.
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The males don't fight to impress the female princess, the few who exist get used then kicked out of the colony to die! The mainstream media is trying to dangerously brainwash us -- it must be stopped!
My point is that the standards of the ruling media (which includes the major networks and Hollywood Studios) have always been sexist and exploitive of women. Always! Unfortunately, (IMO) they reflect the tastes of this culture. Buffy is an exceptional show, but keep in mind that it isn't even broadcast in much of the US. Xena is syndicated and probably wouldn't be picked up by many tv stations if it weren't for the half-dressed babe factor and their inability to recognize the subtext scenes.