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PostPosted: Thu Jul 20, 2017 9:08 pm 
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Sometimes my sister REALLY pisses me off!

She invited my daughter and niece down to Corpus for a girls weekend. First, she bought tickets to a concert featuring bands SHE loves and they've never heard of, then tells them a couple hours ago about all the stuff they're gonna do and to bring their own money to do it!

HELLO! YOU ASKED THEM. Teenagers about to leave for college in a few weeks knowing THEY HAVE NO MONEY! My niece is 5 hours from home. So exactly where is she supposed to get all this money before they leave tomorrow morning? Ok wait, now I get it! WE'RE supposed to give them ALL the money they need...for the weekend SHE planned as their graduation gift! WTFFFFFFFF?????????? :gnome :gnome :gnome :gnome :gnome :gnome :gnome :gnome :gnome :gnome :gnome :gnome :gnome

Let's also not forget how she invited herself and the boys to my house for Christmas this year without asking if we already had plans or not. Again... :gnome :gnome :gnome :gnome :gnome :gnome :gnome :gnome

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PostPosted: Tue Aug 01, 2017 9:02 pm 
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This isn't exactly a rant but I didn't know where else to put it...

I've been chatting with a girl online and she seems great. I really like talking to her and she shows interest in all the right ways. She asked me on a date - and I said no.

I haven't been on a date or had any sort of romantic relationship in 4 and a half years. I want to date. I think I could really like this woman.

But she's dating other people right now. I know I couldn't feel comfortable in an actual relationship with someone who's seeing other people. So what would be the point? I could probably go on a couple of dates before it got to a point that I wasn't comfortable with non-monogamy, but I see little point in dating someone knowing it couldn't go farther than that. What would happen if I really liked her? I stop seeing her and feel really sad? I ask her to date me exclusively, which would most likely end in rejection and would definitely put her in an awkward place? I keep seeing her despite knowing that it couldn't be what I really want?

We're going to meet as friends and I'm looking forward to it. I'm new to the area and really need friends here. But I'm disappointed, and I'm struggling to separate the disappointment because I like *her* and the disappointment because I turned down the first person who showed interest in me since 2013.

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PostPosted: Wed Aug 09, 2017 7:58 pm 
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i went to summer camp with my boyfriend. (we're both trans boys jsyk but we're not out at camp). it's like, 20% gay people and 80% homophobes, basically. and this ass, we'll call her mary ellen, comes up to us while we're in the pool. keep in mind we weren't making out, we were literally just near each other. we might've hugged or something. and the conversation goes like this

mary ellen: hey LADIES .....
me: hello!
mary ellen: listen, i know you girls are close, but.. the way you're acting .... is making other people uncomfortable. just like if it were a guy and a girl! do you understand?

and i thought it was stupid but i guess i was fine with it, i don't know what i was expecting. but the part that makes me really angry is it kept happening. we werent making out, we were sitting together. gasp! i know! 16 year old gays sitting together. scandalous!! and mary ellen had the NERVE to be like "hi ladies...... i know you're really good friends and everything but i've gotten multiple complaints from counselors and students ........ all this touching and rubbing and hand holding is really inappropriate and has to stop or i'll call your parents and have you separated .... thanks! (:" like can you imagine being so extra that you call occasional hugs "touching and rubbing" and get upset that two people hold hands sometimes

long story short i hate summer camp

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I'm probably going to sound like an asshole, but I just need to vent.

I've come to the conclusion that some people, usually the ones that bitch and complain, will never go further in life than where they are right now. I'm serious. Some people were made to lead, but the majority are made to follow. The perpetually irresponsible that can't do shit unless someone fucking tells them to....from wiping their ass to turning the fucking lights off before they leave work.

It's not even the fact they didn't turn them off that bugs me, but the fact that the last person to leave had the balls to lie about it. "I shut everything off before I left." No, you didn't. "Someone mush have come back after I left." Even if they had, the string of party lights and Sensy thing wouldn't have been turned back on. "Well, idk because I turned them off." OMG! WTF? NO. YOU. DIDN'T.

Why lie about something so insignificant? Just take some fucking responsibility, be accountable. Like, "Hey, I'm sorry, I'll make sure it doesn't happen again." And then make damn sure it doesn't. Because if I can't trust you to turn the lights off, I can't trust you to be here when I'm not and then you serve no purpose.


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I'm really down and kinda grumpy this evening, and it's extra sucky cause tonight was supposed to be great and start off an awesome weekend.

I have family in town and went to hangout with them for a bit, but it was largely stilted/awkward and it was kinda rough seeing how poorly the woman who is basically my aunt is doing now - I'd been told how sick she is, but seeing it was totally different. I pretty quickly clued in that the hangout was not going to last as long as I had planned, so checked in with my girlfriend about her evening plans and she said to come over as early as I could.
Girlfriend has a friend in town this weekend, so I knew she wasn't going to be as flexible, but when I was getting ready to leave I told her I'd be there 9 or a little before and she said no problem. Then when I'm halfway there, expecting to arrive 8:30ish, she texts that they've only just gotten to the restaurant and probably won't be home by 9.
I know it's not really her fault, wrangling 4 or 5 people isn't easy and I did tell her 9 not 8:30, but I just feel really bummed and frustrated. Thankfully when she texted I was near my stop, so I just got off the bus and came home, but now even though I want to see her I don't really want to leave again. I don't want to go socialize with her friends, at least one of whom I haven't met, and fake energy that I don't feel. And she's bummed that now I don't want to come until later, but like, she's the one who told me to come as early as I could and then wasn't ready? So I'm sort of annoyed at her for being down about it, even though that's not fair. And then she told me she was feeling grumpy and I figured the grumpiness was because she wouldn't see me until late, but she said it was cause she was hungry and a tiny, super-selfish part of me felt disappointed that it wasn't about me - which then makes me feel like an awful person/partner.

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