Today was the first time I baby sat our 2 years old nephew. A bit over a week ago, his parents told us we could have him over if we wanted, that they trusted us. That meant a lot because we know that they don't trust the mom's mom for example. And they know me only since last November. And my girl doesn't have much experience with kids.
So yesterday S called to ask if he could come over to work on the Chevy we're hosting in our garage (an old car they're repairing and turning into a camping-friendly van), and if I could take care of Niels until his mom was off of work.
So here I was today, spending a whole of 6 hours with baby Niels all by myself. Feeding him, changing his diaper, putting him down for a nap, and most importantly, playing with him and stimulating his curiosity with music (made him discover Peter and the wolf).
Not only did he kept on calling me Juju, but he gave me hugs, kisses... He laughed a lot. His happiness filled me up.
Then his mom arrived and she had brought the photo album of his birth (it was a home-birth) so I could get to know him before I actually met him. Also because she knows that my girl and I are interested by home birth. (not that there is any birth coming before a couple of years or so).
Long post but there are just so many things that made me happy. I've been trusted with the most precious little boy, will be again, and I feel like I have also been totally accepted as not only L's girlfriend, but as a family member.
