Thanks, everyone, for the warm welcome back (even though I don't deserve it after making you wait so long for this update... sorry!
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Well, first off I want to profusely apologize for the length of time passing between posts. I won’t offer any excuses because there are none that a good enough. I just hope that you all continue to read and feedback even though I am a bad bad fanfic writer.
On the plus side, I have an update for you all and also I have the makings for another 2 chapters pretty much done, they just need to go through the beta process.
On that note, shout out to my wonderful beta vampyregurl73! Heather, you’re awesome, amazing, spectacular! Thanks for helping me make this a better story.
These next few chapters should have a lower than usual angst rating.
Disclaimers: See above
Rating: PG 13
Note: This story deals with issues of sexual abuse and the road to healing that comes as a result of such an experience. Please to not read any further if you will be negatively affected in any way.
Ariel:
Glad to be back (even though it was momentarily and then I was gone for another month.. sorry!)
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Love the continued development of their friendship; the best kind which involves growth for both parties. Nice moment.
I liked writing Faith into this fic. I decided early on to give her a cameo as Willow’s friend and then things just kind of spiraled from them. Glad their friendship works.
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Love how beautifully you evoke sensuality and red-hot arousal, too!
There might be a little something more
tangible, let’s say, to look forward to within the next couple of posts
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Then Tara and Willow’s continued discovery of each other and their continued journey to become whole. Affecting and effective writing. Thank you so much!
No, thank you. I don’t know if I could continue on with this story if I didn’t have the continued support from all of you guys who read and leave feedback. It really makes the process something special for me.
SMGOVAN: Glad to be back!
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To Alaine: Bon voyage Biiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiitch!!..
She really was something else, wasn’t she?
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I was very glad that Tara did not push Willow away and that she has an appt. to see a therapist. It's a step and the right direction...
These next few parts will delve into the therapy process and hopefully set everyone up on a clearer path towards healing.
Thanks, as always, for reading and feedbacking!
Angieb86:Quote:
Can I get a WOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOT?!!!!!!
You can get two.. WOOT WOOT
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Glad that Tara is relieved that the end of her struggle is on the horizon.
Yes, the end-ish is nigh… but not too nigh. Lol. But there will be a few sections that will certainly move the storyline forward.
Thanks for reading and for leaving feedback! Hope you enjoy the update!
Bouncer73:.Quote:
so glad that Tara knew that willow didnt want that skanky monkey butt alaine..but the angst was kiling me for awhile..great job and heres to 2011
I did kind of leave it there for quite a while, didn’t I? Sorry about that! The next few parts will be less angst-y, I promise. Cheers! To 2011. Thanks so much for reading!
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First...BIG yay for Tara knowing that Willow did not initiate that kiss. Phew! You kinda left us all hanging and I for one, was a little worried! So, thank you for minimizing the angst.
Sorry for leaving you hanging… I wasn’t planning on leaving the story for quite so long. Hope these next few updates makes up my tardiness Quote:
“Look at me, Tara,” Willow repeated. Tara’s eyes shifted upwards marginally and she was surprised to see anger splotching Willow’s face. “You are whole,” she insisted. “You are normal.”
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Never have truer words been spoken.
This was a big moment for me, too. It’s kinda the basis for Tara’s struggle and right there in those few words Willow is able to express how she sees things.
Thank you so much for sticking with me and this story. Hope you like the next part.
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Even bigger yay for Willow getting Tara a therapist appointment for the next day and Tara seeing it as a start of way for the future...
The future is starting with this next update. Therapy is on the horizon.
I'm kinda worried what that bitch could do to Faith and Tara. I truly hope she is gone for good...Wellll, I’d never say never, but she’s gone for now (and probably forever)
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I like Faith even more after she went and stormed in Alaine's room and gave her her options. Hopefully she is leaving for good and doesn't try and cause any trouble on her way out.
Ding dong, Alaine is gone… Faith feels a kindredness with Tara and this is how she stands up for her new friend. Plus, we all know Faith is bad-assed.
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Looking forward to Tara's first appointment with the therapist. I'm sure Willow will be right there by her side as support.
This part is coming right up… thanks for reading!
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Thank goodness you're back, what a cliff to leave us all hanging off of! I am immensely relieved that Tara realized that Willow had no interest in that silly little harlot (what an internal Cordelia she has living in her head). I was a bit puzzled by Faith's reaction. She was so abrupt with Willow in the last chapter, but then defends her to Tara: And then when Willow turns up she doesn't talk to her, she just leaves. I really hope that she meant what she told Tara, and realizes that Willow would never be untrue. I would hate to see Faith develop feelings for Tara that Tara can never return. look forward to more!
Ahhh… To clear things up a little with the whole Willow/Alaine/Tara/Faith thing. Now, rest assured, there will be no romantic feelings being developed by Faith. She just feels an extreme level of protectiveness and sees a kindred spirit in Tara and that is something that I think she hasn’t had. So, regardless of her previous relationship/friendship with Willow, she is going to act in a way that seems a little irrational, but it’s just to show her displeasure in the situation and because she really doesn’t know where all of these sudden emotions are coming from (but they’re NOT romantic)
Thanks for always reading and commenting. Hope you like this next part.
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Oh, thank God you're back. Hope you had wonderful holidays.
Lol… thanks! You all are too kind to an absent girl. I did have a lovely holidays, thank you.
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Thank you so much for straightening things about between our girls
I like conflict, it’s a necessary part of a story imho, but yes, I know I pile it on in this fic, so it was certainly time to clear it up.
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And so glad also that she's ready to see the therapist. I'm very curious to see how that goes.
This is forthcoming.. .like REALLY soon
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Also, LOVED Faith confronting the stalker bitch. Actually, I was a little surprised she managed to keep her anger to only words, as I could almost feel her fists forming and wanting to do the bitch bodily harm. It was all handled very well and in a mature manner, and so glad that girl decided to do the smart thing and skeedaddle.
You know, sometimes words are stronger than fists. And I think that Faith really wanted to use her fists, but after spending the day with Tara, I think she learned a thing or two and it carried over into this situation.
Thanks so much for reading! Hope you like this next part
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cyteach, you have done an absolutely, unbelivably, amazing job with this story.
Wow, thank you for your kind words
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as an abuse survivor, and someone who is in the middle of the same life shattering decision tara made at the begining of the story, i cannot express in words what this story means to me.
You just did by writing that. Thank you so much.
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you are doing a stunning job of capturing the true essence of what it means to survive abuse and the long torturous task of healing and living again.
I write what I know and from my own experiences. I’m just grateful that all of you wonderful people have taken the time to read and respond to my little story. It makes the process so rewarding.
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after throwing off 20 years of pain, fear, hatred, regret, and living for others rather then my self, i was begining to waver on whether or not i could actually start over and build a better life for myself. finding this story has helped to renew my confidence in my decisions and my hope that i too can find someone as kind and patient as willow is in this story, to share my life with and build a better world for myself
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Wow. I would say, as someone with a similar experience, that the first steps are the hardest to take, and once you make that decision, things get easier.
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let me just say again how truely remarkable your work is, and that i cannot wait to read more, hopefully soon!
Thank you so much for reading a leaving this feedback. Here’s the next part, I hope you enjoy it.
Well, here's the update... hope you all enjoy it and aren't too mad with me for making you wait so long!
Feedback, regardless of how short, long, positive or negative, is always welcomed!!!
--Cy
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Chapter 30: Adaptation
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Fingers drumming without any semblance of rhythm on the cold steering wheel, Willow navigated the winding road as she tried to force her heartbeat to cease its erratic pounding. The silence in the vehicle was deafening, and had been since they left the compound ten minutes before, but she struggled to find what she thought was a safe topic to engage Tara in.
“Will,” Tara warned as the insistent drumming continued unheeded. “Stop that and tell me what’s on your mind.”
Willow’s eyes quickly glanced to the right in surprise at the comment. She thought, wrongly, that she was hiding her anxiety so well. She concentrated on the worn asphalt in front of her, and the tricky twists and turns that seemed to appear out of nowhere, as she thought about their destination.
“I’m just thinking, that’s all,” Willow offered with a smile trying her best to be diplomatic. She was sure that Tara would want to think about something far less nerve-wracking than her upcoming therapy session. She continued to glance occasionally in Tara’s direction, trying to gauge the emotional state of the woman next to her.
Not convinced of Willow’s avoiding answer, Tara shifted closer to the center console and took one of Willow’s hands off of the steering wheel. “Is this okay?” she asked, worried about the precarious state of the road and the level of concentration and dexterity needed to manoeuvre.
“Sure, baby,” Willow said as she rubbed her thumb gently over the back of Tara’s hand. “How’re you doing?” Willow finally asked after another silence swept over them.
“I’m fine. A little nervous,” Tara admitted. “But fine.”
“Nervous?”
Nodding her head but shifting her gaze to the view of the road, Tara sighed audibly. “Well, this is new for me. So much has happened over the past few weeks and I clearly need to take this step, I know that, but I can’t get my body to calm down. Sometimes it doesn’t listen to reason,” Tara quipped lowering her gaze. “I’m just making myself queasy with the various scenarios that are racing around up here,” she added tapping herself on the head.
“Well, this is a big step,” Willow reassured. “Have I told you how incredibly proud I am of you?”
“Yes, sweetie. At least five times today,” Tara smiled and brought Willow’s hand to her mouth. “Thank you,” she whispered lovingly.
“For what?” Willow searched her memory for something kind or sweet she had done for Tara that day. She had already been thoroughly thanked that morning for bringing breakfast in bed, she remembered with a grin and a blush, but she couldn’t remember anything else of note.
“For being you. For supporting me and being my anchor through all of this mess,” Tara admitted quietly. “I don’t know what would have happened if fate hadn’t of put us in the same place that day, Willow. I…It was awful convenient, wasn’t it?”
“These things happen for a reason, I think,” Willow said with a shrug, not willing to question the reasoning of destiny. “The fact that both of us were here when it was necessary, it just reiterates to me that we’re meant to be. It’s me and you, okay? We can deal with this.”
Tara began to fidget in her seat as they neared the city. Rationally she knew that this was a step in the right direction on her path of healing, but emotionally, she was really not looking forward to baring her soul to a stranger. “Will?” She asked plaintively. “What exactly happens in a therapy session?”
“Well, I guess it really depends on the situation you’re bringing and the type of theory the therapist practices,” she began. “It’ll be a conversation, for the most part, and today I think will be more so an introductory session to discuss what you hope to accomplish with it.”
Tara silently took in what Willow was saying. It helped a little to ease the anxiety racing through her blood to realize that not much delving in would be happening today.
“I was in therapy once,” Willow offered. “When I was fourteen. After my parents died, the state thought it would be a good idea to assess my coping and grieving process.” Willow sighed with the memory. “I didn’t really do much to help my situation. I felt forced into it, and even at that age, I was well-read and versed in the concepts of psychotherapy and did everything I could to sabotage the situation.” Willow paused, caught in her memory.
After a pause, she continued. “After the first session—which was basically a get-to-know-you sort of thing, I spent the next two sessions is a state of silence. I sat there and waited for him to say something to me, but he just stared me down after the “how are you today” stock question. It was painfully awkward and discomforting, but I was fourteen and pissed off at the way he was talking to me like a child.”
“Willow, sweetie, you
were a child,” Tara conceded softly.
“I know,” she admitted. “And I sometimes wish I could back and change things, but I felt insulted at the level which he talked down to me. And I reacted badly. There’s only so much of ‘how does that make you feel’ a person can take, let me tell you.”
Taking a moment to concentrate on an area on the road that was particularly tricky, Willow refocused back on Tara. “I mean, in my defense, how would
you feel if your parents just died in a plane crash? It was an imbecilic way of dealing with my issues, and I didn’t appreciate the coddling one bit.”
Tara remained silent through Willow’s tirade. It made her feel useful to be able to listen to Willow and share in her experiences. Just as she was going to enter into the conversation and offer her own point of view, Willow continued on.
“In the end, it was a learning experience, though,” Willow added, reflectively. “It took a while but it made me realize, eventually, that my actions were self-destructive. The only person I was hurting by refusing therapy was myself. I let my anger and grief eat at me unknowingly on the inside while I went about what I thought was a normal and well-adjusted life.”
Willow glanced at Tara and saw nothing but understanding and acceptance on her face. “I spent a long time absorbed in a fantasy-like world where I wasn’t affected by my parents’ death and used it as a self-motivation tool to focus on my studies. In high school and throughout my undergrad degree, I did nothing but strive to be the best.” Willow chuckled at the memory. “I was quite the little bookworm, you know,” she said with a smirk.
“I hit the proverbial wall with my issues about midway through my graduate degree,” Willow remembered clearly. “All of a sudden I didn’t know who I was, what my values were, or where I belonged in the world. I was taking the maximum number of courses, writing academic articles that were published regularly, and working on digs during the down time.”
Tara placed a loving kiss on Willow’s palm. “What happened then?” she asked curiously, hoping to get an even clearer picture into her enigmatic girlfriend’s past.
“And then I finally went to group therapy sessions focused on grief and their manifestations. Group therapy wasn’t so intimidating to me, and I didn’t mind sharing my experiences with strangers who’d dealt with similar things. I was more prepared for what therapy would offer and I was finally ready to deal with my issues. So I guess something good did come out of the original refusal of therapy thing because I wasn’t ready at the time to actively do anything about it. It took me almost eight years to come to terms with my parents’ death and that fourteen-year-old me was in total denial of the effects.”
Tara paused and thought carefully before responding, making sure that Willow was finished with her recounting. Her eyes lifted to a spot on the roof of the car, her mind trying to find the right words to illustrate her thoughts on the clearly difficult situation. “Well, when my mother died, I know there were a lot of conflicting emotions battling inside me. I was angry at her for leaving me, I was incredibly lonely, and I felt lost for a long time.” Tara shrugged and glanced at Willow. “It’s not the same, I know, and I don’t know if I would have wanted to be put in that position myself—with the forcing of the therapy—at the time, but I’m sure the intentions were good.”
Tara saw the death of her mother as her turning point in her development of repression. Even though she never told anyone about the years of abuse, with the passing of her mother, she knew she no longer had anyone to tell even if she wanted to.
Willow looked at Tara in shock at her admission. “Oh, baby, I-I had no idea. Gosh, I’m such an idiot running my mouth like that,” Willow groaned, cursing herself for her lack of tact. “Just ignore the dummy next to you,” she pleaded with a chastened look. “I-I don’t think before I speak sometimes.”
“Hey,” Tara gripped Willow’s hand and forced their eyes to meet momentarily. “I didn’t say that to make you feel bad, sweetie,” she insisted. “I w-was just trying to understand, to give you my own experiences on the feelings that come with losing a parent, that’s all.” Tara’s head dipped self-critically and she added, “Perhaps I’m the one who should learn how to keep her mouth shut, hmmm?”
“Tara, no,” Willow asserted, wishing they were having this conversation somewhere that allowed more eye contact and focus. “I always want you to say what you’re feeling, okay? Don’t ever think that I don’t.” Willow moved her arm around Tara’s shoulder and brought her closer. “I’m sorry. I didn’t mean for this conversation to take this turn.” Willow sighed at her own insensitivity.
“Willow, we need to be able to talk about whatever we want, you know, without fear of how the other is going to react.” Tara snuggled down into Willow’s embrace pushing away the self-negative thoughts and focusing on the feel of herself in Willow’s arms. “I don’t want you to walk on eggshells around me, sweetie,” she added, her voice becoming muffled. Her statement was earnest and complex and not just directed towards their current conversation.
“I want us to be able to talk about anything, too, baby. I-I just should have thought things through a little more clearly before bringing this up when you’re already feeling apprehensive about your first counselling session.” Willow sighed and ran her fingers through Tara’s hair in a comforting gesture.
“It just makes me sad that you had to grow up so fast,” Tara admitted softly, images of a broken teenaged Willow running through her mind.
Willow thought about Tara’s own childhood and was amazed, once again, at how selfless this wonderful woman could be. Despite her own experiences, her own lack of an innocent childhood, she still had the ability to sympathize with others’ pain.
Attempting to move the mood to one that was lighter, Willow joked, “Hey, no worries. I turned out mostly normal in the end, right?”
Tara chuckled and tickled Willow’s side. “Yes, sweetie, you turned out fine.” She paused and looked up into Willow’s eyes, her face becoming serious. “I think you’re just about perfect,” she admitted with a slight blush.
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With the change in conversation to a topic that was a lot deeper than was intended, Tara realized it served to make the last twenty kilometers of the drive fly by in a blur. Their surroundings changed from one that was sparsely populated to a location that was spotted with commercial buildings surrounding by residential areas. Willow slowed down the SUV and indicated a turn.
“So, this is it?” Tara asked while perusing the seemingly utilitarian red brick building. “It’s not exactly what I had pictured in my mind,” she admitted around a mouthful of thumb which she had begun to chew on when the car entered the parking lot.
Willow lovingly rescued the innocent digit and took both of Tara’s trembling hands within her own. “It’s going to be okay, baby. I’m going to come in with you and then I’m going to be right in the waiting room the entire time, okay? One word and I’ll rush you out of there and you never have to go back, deal?”
With a resolute sigh and a straightening of the shoulders belaying a strength she did not feel, Tara agreed and stepped out of the SUV. She was met at the end of the vehicle by Willow who immediately took her in her arms and squeezed all of her love into that one embrace. “You can do this,” Willow insisted with sincerity.
They clasped hands and walked together towards a turning point they both knew waited for them inside.
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Inside the building, the space was divided into a number of individual suites of offices. Coming to a listing directly inside the main doors, Willow consciously refrained from extracting the info sheet she had compiled for this visit and allowed Tara to run her eyes over the list of names, finally finding the one she was seeking halfway down the board: Dr. Erin Hogan, Suite 219.
“I guess we’re going up to the second floor,” Tara said needlessly as they turned to find the stairwell. Coming out at the top of the stairs, gold-plated signs with directional arrows pointed them towards their destination. A frosted glass door with the suite number and doctor’s name reiterated that they were in the right place. Before she could turn the knob and enter, Willow stopped Tara by placing a hand on her shoulder.
“Wait,” Willow urged as she dug around in her pocket. “I found this for you yesterday,” she said and handed Tara a small beach rock that fit perfectly into the palm of her hand. It was oval and flat, but cracks and crevices graced the surface marring the smoothness. Tara rubbed her thumb gingerly over the warm stone, tears pricking her eyes at the loving gesture.
Tara leaned over and reverently placed a soft kiss on Willow’s cheek. “Thank you, sweetie. It’s perfect,” she whispered.
“Here goes,” Tara said on a deep breath before turning the knob and entering, with Willow at her side.
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TBC....