That is amazing. I am extremely new (May if this year) and late on the bandwagon; even with the show. I had watched sporadically when it was on. It was the encouragement (to write again) and the mandatory Buffy marathon some very dear friends tied me to a chair at that changed this.
Not only did Willow and Tara's relationship warm the cockles of my heart but the show it's self grew on me. Not to mention realizing how many of Joss Whedon's "Buffy-isms" have made it into everyday speech not just as fan speak.
Me being, lol, all knowledge-y girl, had to know more. So with my trusty laptop and google as my friend off I went. I found good stuff, I found stuff so bad it made me want to cry and stuff that just plain gave me the creeps. I found out what fan fiction was - good fan fiction - not more of the poorly written 7 of 9/Janeway hump fests...if I never read another it will be too soon.
I found an author I like/liked but who had vanished and her trail led me here. I had no idea what I had found here. Other links died or didn't exist and pretty much everything pointed my back to The Kitten. So for grins and giggles, I joined. I began to read everything I could, JustSkipIt, EasierSaid, Ophelia11, Laragh, Alex_Vixen, Jasmydae, Alcy, NeverChosen and sooo many more.
Most importantly, I also found an extremely supportive group of people. Friendly, nonjudgmental, considerate,inviting and from all across the world. I'm not a big one for chat rooms but I do visit the one here and it's always fun. With more encouragement from said friends who tied me up (not really but there were threats and the showing of rope *shudder* - they're some scary girls, trust me

) I've now even tried my hand at fanfic, I have a wonderfully supportive beta - thank you Meg - and oiling my rusty writing skills back into shape with a topic that's fun while doing something I love to do - write.
Thanks to everyone for keeping this alive, for being so kind and just being one of a kind. We all got lucky the day we found The Kitten.
So Happy Birthday/Anniversary/Just Glad We Made It - whatever you want to call it. Here's my support for at least another ten more!