Yeah they were definitely sleeping next to each other on the floor at Xander's place. If I remember rightly, Xander's apartment only has one bedroom, that's why Anya was sleeping on the couch behind Tara, they must have given Dawnie the bedroom. Going back to what Bob + Xita were saying, I don't think there's ever been any doubt about how much Willow loves Tara, but Tara has always been the more tactile of the two and the one to use the cute pet names. I'm sure this was deliberate, mainly coz Willow is normally a tactile kinda gal and I'm sure she is very tactile in private
but she obviously felt somewhat uncomfortable showing affection in public with Tara.
I do agree with Bob, I think Willow did take Tara for granted to a certain extent, I mean Tara is so totally devoted to Willow, I guess it could be kind of easy to assume she would always be there. Tough Love was the catalyst for Willow to realise just how much she loved her, the argument, the brain-suck, kicking Glory's ass and finally comitting herself to Tara for the rest of her life, no matter what!
You see, that's why I love this show and W+T in particular, amongst all of the vampires and demons and the fantasy, their relationship is totally real and believable, out of adversity true love prevails and for Willow it was the unthinkable, losing Tara, that finally made her grow up and realise just how much she loved her. Yes Kitties, I'm sure we'll see a lot more of Willow lovin' next year!!!
Sorry got a bit carried away there!
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To love someone deeply gives you strength. Being loved by someone deeply gives you courage. -- Lao Tzu
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