Who iniated the relationship?

[0 CaliSto 0]

after all these years i still dnt know

Results (total votes = 117):

willow chased tara	13 / 11.1%
tara chased willow	36 / 30.8%
it just kinda happened	68 / 58.1%

[The Rose24]

I have to say, at first, Tara is doing the chasing(remember she is the one who seeks out Willow in "Hush," she wants to give Willow the doll's eye crystal and the "I am Yours" scene), but after she realizes Willow is interested as well, she lets Willow set her own pace because obviously, Willow has never been in love with a woman or by extension, been in a gay relationship. Tara has probably never been in a relationship either, but the evidence suggests she knows she is gay long before Willow.



This is not really a choice, so I will go with Tara.



This will make a good discussion on the main board.

Tara: My heart doesn't stutter.


Tara: Willow, I got so lost.

Willow: I found you. I will always find you.

[imyoursforever]

i agree with the rose about tara jtryin to find willow in "hush" so i said tara chased willow

[ichi chan]

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i agree with the rose about tara jtryin to find willow in "hush" so i said tara chased willow

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It may have been so at the beginning but Tara backed off after a while and eventually it was Willow-initiated and then both. I went with 'it just kinda happened' although now, with reasoning, I'm going more Willow.

[The person she loves]

at first it was tara doing the chasing, then she back off thinking willow didnt want to be with her, then it was willow doing the chasing but she to back off, then i think it just kinda happened. but either way im glad it happened

[SithLordWiccan]

It just happened.

[lollipopgirl]

It just happened!

X-Katie-X

[Thorn]

it just kinda happened

[Willowtree252]

Thank goddass it happend

[gorn]

I just kinda happened ... but I think Tara took most of the first steps. Tara's hand reaching out in "Hush" says it all (no pun intended).