WOMEN - The Big Sexuality Poll

[xita]

again 5 choices only

Results (total votes = 1134):

Lesbian	551 / 48.6%
Straight	105 / 9.3%
Bisexual	191 / 16.8%
Questioning	127 / 11.2%
Labels? What Labels?	160 / 14.1%

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"Everything is turning out so dark..."

"No, it's okay. Lost is good. Willow and I always know how to find each other!"

[wyllaminablue]

i never did like labels for such things, personally at least. confuses things and people judge you by them. silly silly. i'd rather just do what i want, and follow emotions. and immediate urges. but mainly emotions. i hope.



mina

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mean, tell me if I said something wrong. Otherwise, I know I'll say it again, probably often and in public.

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Edited by: BytrSuite at: 3/23/03 11:15:45 am

[BigGayBear]

Yeah, I'm centred on the girls, but... *shrugs* 'lesbian' sounds so set in stone.

I prefer GAY... it kinda leaves an open end.



Yay to gay, coz gay is the way.

[DarkRed]

I'm attracted to boys and girls, so you can say i'm bi.. but for me it's really not important, cuz i believe in love and that i may find it in a girl or a boy.. the package (hehe) doesn't matter for me.



it's the human being that i fall for, and that's how i view love.. two ppl together, no matter if it's bg b gg .



anne.

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"It's only after you lose everything that you're free to do anything."

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[LilacWine22]

I would fall into the straight part, there was this thing i heard in a movie that i liked thought id share it here goes...



"what ive come up with is really simple,i came to this on my own terms,i didn't just heed to what i was taught men and women should be together it's the "natural way" and that kind of thing im not going to choose a man simply because of what family,society and life try to instill in me from day one,the way the world is,how seldom it is that you meet that one person who just gets you,it's so rare and to cut oneself off from finding that person,to immediately half your options by eliminating the possibility of finding that person in your own gender,that just seems stupid, to limit the likelihood of finding that one person who complements me,so completely"



just thought it was nice and thought you might like it! it was from "chasing amy" i think that's roughly how it went!



oh and " your sexuality does not define your personality"

[Lt Sticks]

I'm definitely in the land of Sapphic poetry



I hate the word lesbian for some weird unexplained reason , I prefer gay....hmm...



~Sticks

A fire in my heart, reborn from the ashes...just call me Phoenix



I'm Under Your Spell, nothing I can do, you just took my soul with you...

[Shadow]

I think I'm kinda gay!

We don't need lists of rights and wrongs, tables of do's and don'ts: we need books, time and silence.

Thou shalt not is soon forgotten, but Once Upon A Time lasts forever.



Philip Pullman

[TaraFanUK]

The word Lesbian to me, made liking women seem wrong, or thats what i have always been brought up to believe...so i'm much more use to saying...I'm gay...than oh i'm a lesbian.

[Stroke of Luck]

I take best of both worlds Well i am BI and it doesnt matter which gender you love...you love the person and not the gender...



At the moment i am more into GIRLS hehe they are so soft and jummy, oh but dont forget boys they are great too



Hi to Anat Hey there sweetie



CU

SoL/Natti

This is a duet, Amber! You need to sing!"- Tony

[buffyanne96]

Questioning...

Edited by: xita  at: 9/11/03 6:32 am

[JustNicks]

I love the word lesbian, for a long time people used it as an insult. So I said "F@#% that" and I love saying I'm a lesbian!



:just Nicks

[cattwoman98111]

99% lesbian. Not going to rule out the possibility that i may meet "that special man" hee hee

Funny enough the word Lesbian has never bothered me, nor has any of the other terms to associate women with homosexuality. The only word i have ever had a problem with is faggot, or any derivative of the word. Seems odd that I would get upset about it, I am pretty easy going. Hmmm.

I want it. Give it to me. I love it. 7-Year Bitch

[Always410]

Questioning..isnt it great?!

Tara: Willow, you are using too much magick. What do you want me to do, sit back and keep my mouth shut?

Willow: Well that'd be a good start.

Tara: (Shocked) If I didn''t love you so damn much I would!

[intricate mirage]

Well no questioning here. Lesbian

Cassie





Ask me if I loved you yesterday. I'll say 'Yes'

Ask me if I love you today. I'll say 'Yes'

Ask me if I'll love you tomorrow. I'll say 'Always'

[tothemax1]

well i just dont like labels

just me whether i love women or not

[0 CaliSto 0]

straight by experience, but boys really dnt interest me no more!!!!!

so questioning i spose

[imyoursforever]

i hate lables but i had to say that i'm lesbain. i dont think people should be worried about if they attracted to a boy or a girl just love... but im not at all attracted to guys

[Black Rose]

hmmmm - i dnt have any problems witht he word lesbian.... i use both - lesbian, gay....... both mean the same, although i really dnt like the word homosexual for some reason......

i thought i was bi but im leanin towards girls big time atm and dnt find most guys attractive and i dnt find any guy attractive from the waist down!

Anyway, the point of all that was: Lesbian!!!

[Morgana333]

Lesbian....I don't mind labels, though people tend to quickly create stereotypes ( as we all know froma certain tv show...*sniff...grrr*)whenever a label is established.

[ichi chan]

Closet-Bi for me (hey, I can't help it if I like to stare at Johnny Depp AND Amber Benson) but relationships? Straight until I out myself to my not-online friends (and my not-caring parents).

[amazonaa]

im leaning to wards girls but still questioning.





lesbian doesn't really bother me but gay does sound better.







brittney

[WinterSun01]

Girls are defo much prettier, lol.

But i'm really not into labels. You love who you love.

I just want to say that life is entirely too short. Carpe Diem is the word. You gotta do what's in your heart. You gotta live your dreams." ~Amber Benson

[veiled isis moon]

I hate labels, kinda feel like they're just there so other people can feel safer about something they don't understand. I hate arrogant, patrionizing individuals who tell me how or what i should feel. I'm me. Simple as. I love who i love, regardless of gender, if we connect and it feels good, i'm not going to be silly and miss out on an opportunity to be happy just because someone out there may not like it. Life's to short.

Although i've always been more attracted to women. There's just soooo much more to love about them. It's very rare that i'll come across a man who i'm attracted to on more than one level, and even then, the odds ain't good.

[Satchi84]

I hate the word lesbian as well. I'm not sure why, something about it just doesn't sit well with me. It 'irks' me. Call me crazy if you must

I've just come out of a one year and one week, almost to the day, relationship with a woman I thought I was going to spend the rest of my life with. She cheated on me, exactly one week after our one year anniversary. Currently I'm still pulling myself together, but I have my eye on one certain guy... he's only looking for fun, just like me! *fingers crossed*

-Laura

There was no easy way then. In all the fairy tales, loving someone was enough to tame the beast, awaken the princess, live happily ever after. In reality, loving someone was often the shortest route to misery.

[WTtruelove]

Yeah im pretty gay,

I dont like the word lesbian either, i dont know why. Probably because it has too many syllables in it, im lazy.

Edited by: Warduke at: 12/27/04 9:54 am

[XxXWillowsBitchXxX]

i say bi..although i hate labels aswell....hmm im not sure though because right now all im interested in is my gf ... so im not even worried bout anyone else...umm but im not ruleing anyone else out!

[demelzie]

so very gay tho i do prefer the word lesbian to gay...i think its kinda pretty

[PoorEve]

All I know is that I'm a lesbian who doesn't particularly like using the word lesbian. Let's just say I'm the other white meat. banana

[angel of salvation]

Wow I'm rare....9.3% rare That would say that I am straight. Yep, with my bf and v happy.

And to add to this discussion about the word Lesbian...I think the word Gay is better..I don't know why but it seems to sound better to me. Huh...might have something to do with people around me with closed minds using Lesbian as an insult or sumthing...I dunno

Anyway...poll wise straight



Jess xxx

'You're my angel of salvation, and hope, and strength...your my multi-angel'-Jay (My baby)

"Denial, Party of one, You're table's ready"-Spud

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[Always410]

Replying again...Previous post as Always410... no longer questioning. *winks* Lessssssssbian!

Jen

to my girl!