I am going to give warning in advance that some of my comments will probably sound very cruel and cold. I love the character of Tara with a passion, but in my bitterness I have attempted to distance myself from the events by treating them with words that are as callous and cold as the deed that takes her from us.
1) Why is Tara being punished?
We know that Willow is being punished in this year of Oh Grow Up for her addiction.
So why is Tara being punished?
The fan wide acknowledged only grown up, only mature character on the show takes a bullet in the back. This teaches us what? That even the most good natured folks have bad things happen to them? Or is it because Tara was selfish when she left Willow and selfish once more when she takes Willow back?
It can be argued that Tara left Willow because she felt she was in danger from Willow's addiction. So irony is kind of ironic that way, when she returns to Willow and then finds her life truly in danger.
Early on we surmised that Tara is being punished for rushing things with Willow. Tara who has always taken things slow and cautious, suddenly throws caution to the wind to make amends with Willow.
This seems to only be fuel for the story line, make up quick and die.
But really what is this telling us. That it's not ok to rush things? That being a lesbian is bad? That supporting someone fighting an addiction is bad? Or that Tara's death is truly a senseless
and utterly devastating plot point in season of our discontent.
In the end, whatever happens, Tara alive or dead. I want an explanation of WHY we as the audience and Willow as a character needed to go through this. And I am not talking about their flippant response of turn the channel if you don't like what you see. Because I will continue watching until the end of this
season, searching for answers and explanations.
So far I have none, which brings us to:
2) Why is Tara perpetually cursed in episode 19 of the season?
4-19 New Moon Rising
5-19 Tough Love
6-19 Seeing Red
I guess if you look at this pattern, we should not be at all surprised that Tara suffers and dies horribly in 19, now should we? After all she has been attacked in every other episode 19 and to some extent, become lost to Willow in each episode 19.
Though NMR wrapped up that episode, it was really the end of Tara's story arc for that season.
In season 5 we did not have resolution until near the end of the Gift. This season we will likely not have a resolution until the final episode of the season as well.
If one wants to look for the glimmer of hope in this pattern, it is that in the end everything turned out ok. Tara has been built up all season just for this instance, to make her loss both crushing and devastating to everyone, not just Willow.
I think this is particularly most cruelly pointed out by the fact that Dawn rediscovers the body, in the home alone. This runs a little too chillingly along the lines of Buffy finding Joyce in the Body. It is just another cruel twist in this already mind boggling series of events.
3) How does Tara's death affect the rest of the Scooby Gang and how do they react?
I think it's safe to say we do not know how it is going to effect the rest of the SG outside of Willow, but certainly there has to be some reaction.
In NMR you had no real reaction for what was going on, because no one knew what Tara meant to Willow until that episode and beyond.
In TL you saw a lot of pity for Tara and sympathy for Willow. Again a glimmer of understanding from Buffy, but not much else. I am always struck with how cold Xander is in the hospital scene in TL.
XANDER: Man, words cannot express how much I hate this place.
This reads, to me, more about Xander feeling sorry for himself or being unable to express his feelings. Similar to his
punching the wall in The Body. Xander is completely incapable of expressing himself in a rational manner.
Which leads me to what kind of reaction is there going to be for Tara this year. With Buffy fighting for her life and Xander likely engrossed with that. What lesson are the others learning from this? If any, and if they have no particular reaction to Tara's death, it just continues to poor on the senselessness of the event.
We thought Dawn had learned her lesson about everyone leaving in OAFA, so how is she going to take the leaving of her surrogate mother? I think probably in much the fashion that a lot of the younger and unspoiled members of the Kitten are...not very well at all.
I suppose we should have seen this coming, well we did in fact, but we denied until faced with the inescapable proof.
But I guess my point is, since I really do not feel there are any good answers to these question...if ME thinks they can just use Tara as a pawn to trigger Willow's reactions. That is very very cheap way to use any of the characters, not just one that is so dear to us.
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"Everyone's getting spanked but me."