Actually I have to agree with Dr G here - I think making this movie in any other way would only have been less effective.
First off, let's face it, comedies attract more people than harsh documentary-like movies - which I'm not dissing at all, but for example if your average, lambda moviegoer has to choose between 'But I'm a Cheerleader !' and 'The Magdalene Sisters' to take a date, which one do you think he'll pick ?
So for me, comedy was the only way to go with this movie, because the promise of a good laugh can always draw people to a movie, some who wouldn't have paid to see a drama dealing with the same themes.
Besides, I don't think in any way that (paraphrasing here) the movie would've hurt fundamentalists and fundamentalist ideas more if it'd been less over the top - because let's face it, nothing hurts more than ridicule.
I'm thinking of that one scene, where Mary (funder of True Directions) is busy watering her plastic flowers. Out comes her son Rock, and says :"Hey mom. Your flowers are pretty." Mary then answers a very determined "I know." and goes back to planting these fake, plastic flowers into the ground - and if one won't stand straight, she angrily rips it off and throws it away. I don't know about you guys, but the symbolism of that scene really worked for me, as it did for the straight friends of mine to whom I showed the movie. Like me, they laughed, called her a freaky monomaniac, and didn't think about that joke any further - until the movie was over, when they turned to me and said 'These people are so pathetic'. Because the movie looks like a piece of fluff, they didn"t expect to actually learn and understand so much from it. Subtle always does it.
Anyway, I'm rambling so - know that I'm not saying that all movies should be comedies and that there's no room for such movies as Boys Don't Cry ; I'm saying that both kinds are useful, in a different way.
(French)Rose