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To send a letter, or let go?

Postby Ben Varkentine » Sat Jul 28, 2007 7:40 pm

The new Entertainment Weekly has a small piece about a new book by a Buffy fan about Buffy fans. In the piece, they quote her as saying she
witnessed "the greatest random act of PayPal" when [a Buffy site] regulars raised $3, 000 to bring an Israeli fan to the U.S. for a five-city tour.


Part of me wants to send them a short e-mail. I've even gone so far as to compose one:

[The writer] thinks Buffy fans rasing $3,000 "to bring an Israeli fan to the U.S. for a five-city tour" was "the greatest random act of PayPal" she's witnessed?

In 2002, The Kitten Board, devoted to Buffy's gay characters Willow & Tara, raised over $8,000 for The Trevor Project, a non-profit organization that runs a suicide hotline for gay youth.

Surely by any logical standard, that's a greater act of kindness than buying anyone-even the nicest person-some airline tickets.


But then I thought, maybe I just need to move on and let go. I'd already nearly made peace with the fact that practically every freakin' issue of EW contains some reference to Whedon and/or his series, whether newsworthy or not.

And besides, acts of generosity probably isn't the kind of thing you want to be in competition about.

But I'm still not sure. What do you think?
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Re: To send a letter, or let go?

Postby maudmac » Sun Jul 29, 2007 1:06 am

Oh, that's a tough one. I can see the wisdom in just taking a deep breath and letting it go. But, yeah, another part of me really wants them to know what we did, especially because, come on, it was waaaay better than giving a fan a tour. :rolleyes I'm sure the tour was nice and the fan appreciated it, but we not only raised almost 3 times that, we did it to help random strangers we will never know. And it was in The Advocate!

I dug around and found this, using the wayback machine:

Fan philanthropy - A Buffy fan site reaches out to a gay youth charity

Maybe some of our newer Kittens don't even know we did this. Check it out. It was really awesome.

Hard to believe it was five years ago. Makes me feel old. lol, Ben, what the hell are we still doing here?!?
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Re: To send a letter, or let go?

Postby Ben Varkentine » Sun Jul 29, 2007 11:56 am

Ben, what the hell are we still doing here?!?


In my case? Market research. ;-)
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Re: To send a letter, or let go?

Postby umgaynow » Mon Aug 06, 2007 1:28 pm

Just remember...letters aren't like e-mail...once you've sent them you can't change your mind and click on Unsend...
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Re: To send a letter, or let go?

Postby Sn0wflak3 » Thu Sep 20, 2007 12:27 pm

You can UN-send emails???
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