Getting to know you . . .

[willowbaby05]

Yes, playing tennis I believe. I'm very good at it...

Can you hold a face to face conversation for a long time?

[inlerf]

no. in fact, i have such a short attention span for that that my close friend complains to me he feels like he's talking to a wall. he's not the only one. :/ i can, however, just gaze into someone's eyes for i donno how long. only condition is i must really very like that person (like my sister ).

how do you cry? do you cry into a pillow or out loud or?

[Boschi]

Oooph. I rarely cry, but when I do it is usually from anger and or frustration (damn those two X chromosomes). So in those cases I cry out loud, usually screaming and pounding something (steering wheel, wall, any handy object...) with my fists. Very mature, no?


On the crying topic: are you a post-sex crier (the good kinda cry)?

[kisstheviolets]

nope, not a post-sex crier. i am a post-sex tang drinker though. who doesn't love some post-tang tang? haha.

when did you realize that you'd passed up some of your longtime friends on the road to adulthood?

[notl33t]

When I started talking in full sentences instead of grunting and/or using one word sentences to convey my feelings. It's sort of why I've ended up online more than I end up at say, a club or a bar.

If you could be any candy bar, what would it be and why?

[db]

umm. I choose Almond Joy - because of the joy. I like joy. Wish I had more of it in my life. Plus, it's nutty.

If you could resolve one issue in your life, what would it be.

[kisstheviolets]

i'd like to be financially solvent. i have a lot of debt/bad credit accrued during illness many years ago and it's really ruining my life right now and i can see it continuing to be a problem for the forseeable future.

did you ever have a crush on a teacher as a kid?

[Leaf]

Oh certainly. Teachers, coaches, camp counselors...you name 'em, I crushed on 'em.

Does your life now look anything like you imagined it would 10 years ago?

[Auburn]

Not in the slightest!!!!

What is your favourite way to spend an evening?

[Willow Watcher]

Are there something like AA meetings for Kitten Bord Aholics? KBA!
After work, I like to relax and either read or write. My son keeps on bugging me to play my Buffy game. For his amusement, I do.
Then at bedtime, cuddling with the wife.

How old were you when you had your first sexual experience?

[dorksrcool]

12

What's your favorite queer movie?

[NewRuthRising]

D.E.B.S.

What's the silliest nickname you've ever been given?

[Leaf]

There was a time in highschool when a particular friend took to calling me "Trout."
It had to do with the color of my eyes and not any fishing inclinations.

What is the best job you've ever had?

[inlerf]

still having and will ever have: being my mother's daughter.

the cheesiest/funniest/worst/best/choose-one pickup line someone's said to you

[mudrat]

The worst pick up line I ever heard is:

"Gee, my balls would look great slapping against your chin!"

A male friend swore to me that he'd used it successfully. I believe he lied.

Which do you prefer: daytime or nighttime?

[notl33t]

Nighttime. It's just so much more fun to sneak and fool around in the dark, then during the day.

Who gave you the best kiss you ever had?

[kisstheviolets]

i had a best friend who i'd been infatuated with for years. though she was mostly straight, and i had a girlfriend, there was a growing sexual tension between us. one night when we were 19, we'd had a bit too much to drink and were arguing in my [parked] car. i started to say something and she just gave me this strange look i'd never seen before on her, put her hands on either side of my face and said "shut up" just before kissing me. it was straight out of a movie. i think my toes actually curled and i saw stars. it was intense and hot and better than anything i'd fantasized about in the six years prior.

your worst kiss?

[Candleshoe]

A guy called Nathan who thought that a kiss was improved by the use of much, much saliva. I needed a facecloth after he'd finished.

How do you unwind at the end of stressful day?

[dynigirl]

Rant, cry, laugh about it, do anything but think about it, swear lots, drink, sleep -

Any of the above, athough possibly not all on the same day

How do you celebrate an achievement?

ETA scratch that - ALL of the above may happen on a really bad day. But tonight I'm going for drink and not thinking about it.

[beanie]

Eat. A lot. Of good food.

Food Coma. Mmmmm.

How many siblings do you have?

(Silly me I forgot the question part!)

[NewRuthRising]

None. Technically I shouldn't even be here. My mum was told she'd never have kids (oops).
Although i did have a dream where I had a little brother that was so real that when I woke up and realised he wasn't real I actually started grieving. I'm an odd person.

How many contacts do you have on your IM program (msn etc?)

[db]

8.

im-ing is very new to me...

If you could create a special space just for you where would it be, what would it look like and how would you use it /what would you use it for?

[inlerf]

it'd be a bed, a very comfy but not springy bed, just slightly smaller than a queen size, beneath an azure sky without any clouds. the sky is limited only to my space (i mean, of course theres the big blue out there for everyone...but if you get). won't be sunny, just...pleasant and cool. and a thick feather/cotton (i have no idea what comforters are made of) comforter. of course, fast speed wireless connection has to be available in there (:P) and somewhere on the ground to put my laptop. plus, people can't see the space unless i want them to ('course i can look out). and it's weather-proof, movable to my wish and i can invite whoever i want in! ;D

do you regularly use a cell/hand/mobile phone? (as in more than just using it to look at time ;P)

[NewRuthRising]

Yes. My dad lives in london, about 500 miles away and all my friends are buggering off to uni so it's a fairly vital part of my life.

what time do you get tired of an evening?

[JustSkipIt]

9:00 or 9:30 most evenings. Late in the week, if I've gotten up early all week, then I get tired 8:30 or so.

The reverse:
Q What time do you get up? Like really up? LIke feel awake rather than being forced from the bed?

[Floyd]

Usually around lunchtime. Yes, I'm lazy, I freely admit that! Hehe.



What are you doing tomorrow?

[notl33t]

I will be at school inputing an old infrared spectra into a new computer program, fixing a vacuum pump with another colleague and trying to get some research done. Heh, the life of a graduate student. Its all one week at a time for me.

What is your favorite style of dancing?

[kisstheviolets]

whatever genre includes the cabbage patch and the lawnmower.

how do you feel about your current job?

[Leaf]

Disappointed, really. Not enough clients, not enough challenge, and definately not enough money. I'm actively looking for new work. I think my disappointment is made all the more acute by the fact that my last job was the best one I've ever had. I loved it dearly. But it stayed in Boston, and I moved to New York. So it goes, huh? So here's hoping that the universe has something wonderful in store for me here too.



What's the last thing you did that you were proud of?

[HalfCamel]

Got my bachlors(sp?) degree.

What is your favorite sport to watch/play?